Where to start and where not to… is the question…
The other day I met a friend and the discussion was around being alone and how saving is important. The worry was how to save now on and where all. True we all have basic sense of saving for rainy season but why take stress? As the discussion was going on I also felt yes, I need to save too but then I said why stress out and save for the future where we don’t know what’s in future? Well, we all have family and parents and if we save am sure many will agree with me that our loved ones will get to enjoy even if we are not there.
I settled with the thought that I am not going to worry this year. I have done that and now I dont want to move in that direction.
Lot of things am reading in the news …and it just aggravates self as you see injustice happening around. It seems like as we are getting educated and well aware of things, we are more confident about implying the jungle law and behaving worst than animals.
We all know by now the tragic incident of the Delhi girl who was brutally murdered after the brutal, inhumane act. People all around the world marched against it and protested to bring justice.
Yesterday, I read a news where a guy tells his college mate that if she doesn’t accepts his proposal her situation will result just like the Delhi girl. I mean after all that how dare a guy has that guts to talk like that? It bothered me so much that I immediately responded to that news article saying ‘his balls should be extracted and given into his hand and tell that this is what is going to happen, with slightest thought of such deeds.” I happen to get 37 points and a bronze reward – god knows what is all this but…it disturbed me.
How dare? Why? Why threatening? Then someone inside me said, they all live in fear…fear of rejection, fear of failure and that’s the reason they use such weapons.
Shame! I felt every man that threatens other person he is actually a coward and is not confident about self.
This is like if you don’t like me I will kill you, or If you dont sit with me I will shoot you, or I will leave you.
One thing I have learned in life is not to live in fear. Face it and face it in such a way that the person never gives any threatening statements to anyone after that.
It’s sad, every individual who goes through such phase and moment have a different approach and lookout probably that is the reason many people getaway with such behavior.
Whether you worry for yourself or for what’s happening in the surrounding – where is the end? What is the end?
Can’t people live peacefully and lovingly? At the end everyone is looking for peace and being loved then why not with its simplicity and not with force and demand?
“He who spares the guilty threatens the innocent” ~ Legal Maxim