Yesterday I was supposed to post this but got busy with things and didn’t get a chance so here it is.
When people say no matter what you should forgive others and move on, it’s not a morality thing only or a saying or a quote.
I believe we all are human and hence we make mistakes and we learn from our mistakes. It’s easy to say learn from others mistake but some situations never come around as if it’s going to repeat someone else’s mistake. It’s just that we are not aware of things at times or situations that make us fall for and later repent. These kinds of mistake we do and better be learn a lesson from it. At the same time, the mistake that we do what impact it brings on others is a big one depending on the type of mistake.
Some mistakes we do is by getting hurt and some mistakes are by hurting others. In all this I believe if we all understand and forgive each other it is like a meditation. I remember my grandma used to tell there is nothing bigger than forgiveness.
“Forgiveness does not change the past but it does enlarge the future” ~ Paul Lewis Boese
Actually, it is true because when someone makes a mistake and instead of forgiving if you show the grudges or anger which is natural that as human you might have those emotions because you are hurt, then the person who made the mistake instead of feeling sorry would feel that good he did that. It’s a natural instinct because if we don’t treat each other with empathy we turn into avengers.
However, if you after lot of processing of course it is not easy because many times its the kind of grudge or ego that we all carry doesn’t allow us to forgive and hence we all need the time to heal and make that attempt to forgive.
“To heal a wound you need to stop touching it”
The story is that when someone has made a mistake and they are sorry for the same, and forgiveness is given thats the most tough time for the one who has made that mistake as he is feeling so much regret and ashamed of what he/she it helps them to atone for their mistakes.
Otherwise, anger only brings anguish and revenge.
Forgive those who have hurt you because either they are not aware of it or did things accidentally. For you to live in peace is to forgive them and for them its your forgiveness that makes them mostly to reparation.