I’d rather die my way than live yours….

Independence Day … yes my memories that can go as far as I remember is we had to be in our best uniform, be early to school and perform well in the programs that we have participated such as drill, lazhim dance, group songs singing all patriotic songs, recite great people’s speech and then listen patiently to the long speech given by the chief guest. We used to patiently wait for the sweets distribution.

During that time in class whatever we studied about pre-independence struggle made by our leaders and the struggle that they had in their life. The sacrifices that they made by not limiting their thinking for their family but for the nation.

All these stories used to make me think why would they do such a big sacrifice and then I used to fall asleep with those thoughts.

I am sure for me it was a story recited and to some extent I could feel and figure out the pain and the sacrifices that they made at young age.

Frankly speaking what is independence? Only those who have gone through the trouble and trauma by losing their independence has the value but then they are not their to even feel this independence.

To us this independence comes as a heritage, so do we really know it’s value and meaning?

 I think our great leaders did their part but now we are dependent on other things which still gives us the responsibility to fight for our independence. Independence for living like a common man. Independence of living like a rich man, independence of living righteously because currently the system is such that one cannot get his work done without bribing and those who have money they bribe and get away with it but the common man – the poor man is still struggling. He is chained with all such systems which doesn’t allow him to live a free life in his own country.
Being in the country, independence day is always about celebrations, programs, sweets and the best it was a holiday nationwide. I used to get my parents to be home.

But when I am out of my country, living freely with the freedom of speech and rights I can feel the context of freedom, when I can get my work done exactly the way another fellow can get it done. I don’t have to bribe anyone and I don’t have to suffer for any such reasons which differentiates and discriminates. When I hear the story of my friends here who have come from all across the world, how they suffered and what trauma they have gone through due to political or other reasons, one really think back as what was wrong their…yes who doesn’t have good habits and bad ones… we have to just not nurture the bad ones and be strong and stand out to bring harmony, peace and equality. It is tough but nothing is impossible in today’s time. When in 1947 people were tortured in the prison, they were with no food and were beaten all the time as a punishment – they could bear all that to get the freedom then why can’t we stand together to fight the discriminating factors?

A true freedom is not only about freedom of speech and thoughts, but freedom should mean in action too. Racial discrimination or caste or gender discrimination or even the status of an individual in a society shouldn’t be the reason to decide one’s freedom.

Equality for every living being on this planet that should be motive.

“Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.”  ~ Rumi


4 thoughts on “I’d rather die my way than live yours….

  1. Fizaji!

    You have summed it up very nicely …lot of people are saying they want to change things the way they are done,however they find shortcuts which is the primary cause of concern. Although we are a free nation …we are still not free!

  2. Another Prasad!!! 🙂

    Hi Usha , just followed your link on FB:) , I blog & am always eager to read blog's.

    I loved reading your 'Musing's'on our independence day , they are Íntriguing'and a ready food for thought.

    Usha you have a very lovely way of putting your thoughts on paper , they are Seamless and easy to understand for a layman like me..

    Can I look forward for more ?

    Thanks for brining us so close to your loud thinking.


  3. Thanks Prasad for visiting my page and appreciating it .. yes definitely with the encouragement of readers such as like you – one can look forward 🙂


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