aah!! its good be back after a busy schedule..isnt it ? But hey…its not that am not busy…but I can say I could get a glance out of it..:)…!!!

“Your mind will answer most questions if you learn to relax and wait for the answer.” ~ William Borroughs

Its busy but then I had my relaxation by watching movies…and believe me it was not World War movies :D….it was good to see the The Constant Gardner…Cinderella Man.(could have been one of the winners as it does shows the time once Americans went through during that depression period and it shows the family ties and the values.the fight for food etc…seems like now American’s have forgotten about that…just coz of all the power..)..and later to see the oscar awards…cool it was worth of them 🙂 and guess what George Clooney got it as well….aah I like him so much :)!!!

“The moments of happiness we enjoy take us by surprise. It is not that we seize them, but that they seize us.”

So it was all fun and fun…but then a discussion came upon with my friends as we were disucssing the movie…the children of S. Africa and a thought came out from me …adoption !!!

“Adoption is when a child grew in its mommy’s heart instead of her tummy”

Yes…is it good to adopt or to have your own kids??? What is it that one looses if we adopt? What do we gain if we have our own???

“Adoption is not about finding children for families, it’s about finding families for children” ~ Joyce M Pavao

Too many debates and points to ponder with the pros n cons…!!! True its such a dilemma…cant we love someone else’s kid who is just left out by someone to face the world without any love or guidance…!

“It is better to light one small candle than to curse the darkness.”

What happens if we just share our love and what ever we have to provide …just give to a child…who is already born …without any one’s consent and is already suffering…isnt it a noble way to share your things with them and give them a better future and make this earth a beautiful place!!! And for this some called me I am in a good company such as Mother Teresa & Bishop Desmond Tutu….calling me humanitarian!!!!

“We are afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care at all.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

But with all the good things that we can provide…why cant one can have there own children…leave a mark in the world…who will be there even if you have gone from this universe…gosh!!!! who to give more points…in every aspect injustice is bound to happen whether its adoption or giving birth to own child!
I would like to know what my friends feel about these…am sure I can get some pros n cons too 😉

“Every great movement must experience three stages: ridicule, discussion, adoption” ~ John Mill

Add your thoughts…it improves everyone to wear a thinking cap on 😉

“Too many children in foster care are falling through cracks. . . . Be a hero — take the time learn about adoption today.” ~ Bruce Willis 😉